fear of failure
“If a person is living out his Personal Legend, he knows everything he needs to know. There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.”
- The Alchemist
This is one of my favorite quotes from The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho; I love it so much I have it tattooed on my left arm above a representation of Santiago at the Pyramids. I was drawn to this quote before I had the chance to understand how pursuing and living your authentic life (Personal Legend in The Alchemist) results in our ability to find all of the answers we seek from within---it's almost like the book was planting this understanding in my mind.
I’d add to this quote that one of the ways to combat the initial fear of failure is to design a plan to continue living your authentic life.
Once you have overcome that fear and you experience how things begin to unfold in in your authentic life, it becomes easier to trust that you know everything you need to know and that everything will work out---don’t be fooled though, this does not mean that everything will be perfect or will go your way, but that you will be ok and everything will work out the way it is supposed to because you are living your authentic life.
And if it’s helpful, remember what my barber shared about fear…it’s just False Evidence Appearing Real.
🦅 Some ways I might be able to help you live your authentic life:
🤝 One on Ones Let's hop on Zoom to do a guided meditation, a creative brainstorming session, or an overcoming an obstacle session.
📝 LifeDesign+ LifeDesign+ is rooted in the Kinder Institute of Life Planning’s EVOKE process, which is a five-step process to help discover what your authentic life looks like and begin to design a plan to bring that life to reality. It continues to incorporate the alignment of your spirit, mind, and body to ensure you evolve with your authentic life, as the authentic life is not a destination, it’s an evolution.
💸 AlignedLife+ AlignedLife+ (and the one-time engagement AlignedLife) takes LifeDesign+ to the next level by aligning your finances with your authentic life at RLS Wealth. For individuals looking for a financial advisor to help design and manage their financial plan while maintaining the alignment of spirit, mind, body, and money, AlignedLife+ was created specifically for you.
📈 LifeDesign+ for financial advisors LifeDesign+ for financial advisors mirrors the LifeDesign+ relationship, including the focus on the alignment of spirit, mind, and body, with an important distinction—once the plan for your authentic life has been designed, we shift our focus to integrating your new plan with your practice.
🤝 Outsourced life planning As your outsourced life planner, you bring me in to take your client through the Kinder Institute of Life Planning’s EVOKE process to help them better understand who they are, what they want their life to look like, and create a vision of this life for you to execute on the financial plan. Since you are their financial advisor, you will be a part of each of the meetings, so you understand the “why” behind your client’s new plan.
